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    They go into the marriage with lack of respect and lack of trust, two absolute necessities for the health of any marriage. I know a newlywed couple who have sex less than once a month because of this -- he doesn't respect her, she knows it, and she doesn't trust him, so she doesn't want to give herself to him. It's very sad, and more common than you might think. But nobody talks about this kind of thing in Not having sex when first dating. And the movie and TV portrayals of couples having sex before marriage never present it either. It's like no one wants to acknowledge that it's Wife swapping for sex in rotterdam, even though it is.

    Waiting to have sex with my wife will mean better sex in my marriage. Because we'll go into the marriage with me having Not having sex when first dating respect for her and her having more trust in me. One thing I've learned: Deep down, she doesn't really enjoy being with him. This is how it works. Since "girls use sex to get love, and guys use love to get sex," a couple will have sex before marriage. The girl does this to hold on to the relationship. The guy does it because he wants it even more than the relationship itself. Then, after the marriage, the woman has what she wants: So she doesn't need to use sex to get him anymore.

    And, because she may be harboring resentment because he had sex with her before they were married, she is now not interested in sex. And the guy -- who doesn't treasure his wife because of the sex before marriage -- still wants sex but not as a total bonding experience with his wife. It's just sex, which she figures out. So, there is a lousy sex life in the marriage. I'm not making this stuff up. Now that I'm out of college and many people around me are getting married, I'm seeing it happen all the time. And consequently they'll have better and more frequent sex because they respect each other more and love each other more deeply.

    Not having sex with other women will mean better sex in my marriage. Sex is a mysterious thing that causes a deep bond between people, even if we call it "casual. It's like a piece of scotch tape -- the more you use it on different surfaces, the less it sticks to things. After awhile, it won't stick to anything. If I bond with other girls before I get married, I won't be able to bond as well with my wife someday. I won't cherish her as much as I could have, and consequently I won't love her as much as I could have.

    Each day that passes that I've remained faithful to my future wife means that my relationship with her will be better. It's a funny thing: Because, if you take the element of time out of the equation, premarital sex is adultery. We can imagine Not having sex when first dating adultery would greatly injure a marriage relationship, maybe premarital sex actually has nearly the same result. It injures the potential bond between a man and a woman. I don't have to sleep with a woman to know if we're "sexually compatible. That's what I've found out. It's supposed to be the icing on the cake when all the other aspects of your relationship are working well.

    I've come to understand that the sex will be good if the rest of the relationship is good. That's why I know I don't have to sleep with my wife to find out if we're sexually compatible. If we get along in every other area, the sex will be fine.

    Why You Shouldn't Have Sex On The First Date

    Something else needs to be said here. Another thing I think I've "discovered" is this: If you put your sexual relationship under a microscope, always judging it Not having sex when first dating judging the relationship by it, it's doomed to fail. It's like being in prison. You're locked in to something that is supposed to be freeing, not incapacitating. But, when you focus on the other parts of the relationship, and the sex isn't the focus, then you're freed up to have a more enjoyable sex life, with no pressure of having to make it always spectacular. Because it won't be. And yet, I don't think that as a college-age adult I was capable of not focusing on sex, that is, unless it wasn't present at all.

    That's why I think it's best to wait altogether. I have found something more satisfying than sex. I know what you're thinking: And in fact, in a way sex helped me to discover the something that outdoes it. And that something is not really a something, it's a someone. Just hear me out on this one, I know it sounds far-fetched, but the whole thing makes sense. God has created us in such a way that we can't be ultimately satisfied by anything except Him. He built that into the human system, and into each one of our individual systems. As one man put it, "Inside every person is a God-shaped vacuum that only God can fill. So we discard them and Not having sex when first dating on to something or someone else, hoping that in them we will find the kind of fulfillment we are all really looking for.

    But the problem is, we never find it unless we come to God for it, because only He can provide it. God loves us too much to see us truly satisfied by anything other than Himself. He wants the best for us, and that means Himself. Nothing or no one is more important than God. I know that's true because I found it out for myself. I all too often come across couples who have broken up because they realise months down the line that they actually have nothing in common outside the bedroom! There has been no build-up of anticipation, excitement or lust. This chase can be a huge amount of fun!

    Use it to your advance. It is also often much sexier for a woman when a person knows how to control themselves rather than putting it out on a plate! Make her work for you. If you do have sex on the first date you have just put yourself into the bucket of one-night stand — until you prove otherwise and see her again. Now you honestly may not be wanting this to turn out to be one-night stand but you sure as hell have just played the typical one-night stand card! It is also much harder to make meeting this person the next time round not just about sex. To build love, to make a commitment to really care about someone, their welfare takes time. To argue and fight and then make up and learn from each other and grow together.

    So, you see sex on a first date is like giving in to junk food when you want to lose weight. Show you are willing to invest in her, by you guessed it, getting to know her first. Diving in is just lazy. Sex is a drug Sex is addictive. When you get that initial high met by having sex, you can easily find you want it again and again. You see, when we do something that triggers our reward centre in our brain, we are flooded with dopamine, which is a drug that can fool us into thinking that what we are doing is the right thing.

    This addiction is based on the sex with this person and not on them as a person. As your addiction to them is purely sexual it is easy for your mind to start to wander to trying to get your next fix from somewhere else more exciting. Sex on a first date is more likely to be the kind of sex where the lines between consent and its absence are thoroughly blurred. It might not be rape necessarily, but it's far from simply underwhelming sex. Unfortunately, our culture has this vision of the rapist or the sexual assaulter as being some masked creep hiding in the bushes. And why is it always bushes? The reality is that these acts are overwhelmingly committed by people the victim knows already.

    And the other unfortunate reality is that lots of the perpetrators don't necessarily realize they've done anything wrong — because there wasn't some violent struggle; the other person just didn't seem very into it. Well, that "not very into it" should be a big, flashing red light to you. Often, that means the person is having a horrible time but is too scared to say anything. Consent is informed and enthusiastic — if your date doesn't seem like they're having the time of her life, stop right away and ask if everything's OK. Again, on a first date, you don't know this person very well.

    That means you're more likely to misread them, and it also often means they'll feel less comfortable voicing their displeasure.

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